Thursday, January 29, 1970

Mission Memories - Dutch Costumes & the City of Urk



I was working in the town of Zwolle, with my companion, Elder Dalebout, and we rode our bikes to the city of Kampen, and from there, we took a bus to the little town of Urk. Here is the excerpt from my journal: 
Okt 15, 1959: We headed for Kampen on the fietzen (bicycles), tracting along the way. We took a bus from Kampen to the city of Urk. It used to be an island (in the middle of the Ijsselmeer, big inland lake in the Netherlands) but two dikes made a peninsula out of it. They build up the dijks, and pump the water out of it and call it a polder. (That is where they used a lot of the windmills, to pump the water out of one side of the Dijk, and move it to the other side). Holland's land area is growing polder by polder.  The polders are excellent farming country, very fertile and completely flat. We went to Urk to have some pictures taken of us in Dutch costumes. All the people of Urk wore a funny looking Dutch costume, and my companion and I dressed up in them and had our pictures taken. (Urk must have been a tourist town, with the picture taking). In other towns in the vicinity, the people wear the funny clothes all the time as a religious expression of their faith. In those towns, they don't cater to tourists, and if people try to take their pictures, they will hide their faces. They may even take you into custody and destroy your camera. But back to Urk, we walked around the quaint little fishing city and saw the people in their costumes. The streets were only about 10 feet wide and they went every which way. No cars were allowed in the city. We tracted one street and got in one house, lady all dressed up - 14 children, man and five sons, fishing. We caught the bus back to Kampen, tracted in Kampen, and and headed back home, against the wind, 14 km. It's possible we were the first missionaries to visit Kampen or Urk, probably forever.



 

Lamar's Mission Memories ~ Scheveningen (Nude Beach)

Scheveningen is a beach on the North Sea, close to Den Haag. 
The beach part must be to the right or left of this pier.

Part of the beach there is a nude beach, so that part was off-limits to us missionaries. The Germans would use that beach, since they have no beach of their own in that area. The Germans know that many of the Dutch people still have bad feelings about the war, World War II, and the Nazis, so the Germans try to speak Dutch so they would be more accepted.  However, the Dutch people know all about this, and this beach, Scheveningen, is a word that the Germans cannot pronounce. It is a very gutteral word that the Dutch love, pronounced something like Sggaveningen, with the gg sound coming from down deep in your throat, but the Germans pronounce it like Sheveningen.

The Dutch then know that these tourists are really German.


Dad/Lamar served his mission 1957-1960

Sunday, January 25, 1970

Geeske Egberts de Haan - Biography


Geeske Egberts de Haan was born 23 February 1878 in Faan, Niekerk, Groningen, Netherlands, the third of eight children of Egbert Gerrits de Haan and Wilhelmina Hemkes Scheeringa. There were three girls and five boys. One of the boys died in infancy. Her father was a well-to-do farmer, but during the depression of the 1890’s, he lost everything. Because of the depression, the girls went to work in the big city of Groningen to work as housemaids. Geeske worked in the home of Brother Van der Werf, who was a member of the LDS church. She soon became exposed to the gospel and joined the church on 19 October 1901 and was baptized by Joseph C. Platt. She was 23 years of age. Geeske’s youngest brother, Jan, was later baptized, in May 1903 at age 18. None of her other siblings joined the church. 

Geeske met Ate Obes Westra about May of 1902 at the LDS church branch in Groningen. Ate was almost 10 years older than Geeske. After a six month romance, they were married on 16 October 1902 in Groningen. They were blessed with three lovely children. Wilhelmina was born 18 January 1904; Obe was born 7 February 1905, and Egbert was born 31 July 1906. 

Ate and Geeske had a prosperous laundry established during this time and in 4 ½ years saved sufficient funds for them to immigrate to America. They immigrated to the United States in April 1907 on the ship, SS Canada, sailing from Liverpool, 11 Apr 1907 and arriving in Portland, Maine, 20 Apr 1907. Their ages as listed on the ship roster were: Ate 38, Geeske 29, Wilhelmina 3, Obe 2 and Egbert infant. On the same ship were Geeske’s brother Jan, age 22, and also Antje Assenberg, age 24, who Jan would marry a month after they arrived in the Salt Lake valley. 

Geeske became pregnant shortly before their departure, and together with sea and morning sickness, did not enjoy a moment of her ocean voyage. Worse yet, they were robbed of all their money on the ship, but were given money by an unknown benefactor so that they could continue on to Salt Lake City. Fortunately they had purchased their train tickets in Holland.

Upon their arrival in Utah, they were invited to make their first home with their Dutch friends, brother and sister Hulshof, and lived at 445 North 12th West in Salt Lake City, until they were able to find and finance a home of their own.

Geeske was known by the name of Grace during most of her life in Utah. Most of the people who knew her could not pronounce Geeske, pronounced with a deep guttural sound on the G.

They had misfortune and trials soon after they arrived among the saints. Just four months after their arrival, their two boys died of “summer complaint” which was caused from hot weather and resulted in high fevers and extreme diarrhea. Egbert died on 18 Aug 1907, and five days later, Obe passed away. 

Another son, John, was born 31 Dec 1907. He lived to adulthood.

Ate was ordained an Elder on 6 Nov 1907, and on Wednesday, 12 Feb 1908, Geeske and Ate went to the Salt Lake Temple and received their endowments, were sealed in marriage together for eternity, and then had their children sealed to them: their two living children: Wilhelmina and John, and their two deceased sons: Obe and Egbert. 

Just a few months later, 21 Jun 1908, Wilhelmina passed away after being sick with scarlet fever. She was just four years old.

Sometime in the year 1908, a small two-room home was purchased at the end of 8th East, just south of Parkway Avenue, in Forest Dale Ward. There were several other Dutch families that lived in the neighborhood with names: Harenberg, DeBry, Neerings, Grundman, Stuurman, Meibos, Springer, Teerlink, Aardema and several others. 

Another son, George was born 13 Oct 1909. George lived just five months and died 17 March 1910. Another son, Joseph was born 23 Oct 1911. He lived to adulthood (this is Lamar's father ... check out Joe's Life History). Two more sons were born: Allen born 9 March 1913, lived 15 months and died 25 June 1914; and Alma born 30 April 1915, lived 9 months and died 15 January 1916. 

During the first half of 1914, Ate purchased a small frame home at 2252 South 8th East. 

The last two children lived to adulthood: a daughter Alice, born 28 January 1917, and Edward, a son, born 23 July 1923. When their last child was born, Geeske was 45, and Ate was 54.


  • (Left Photo) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their three children: Wilhelmina, Obe and Egbert, taken in Netherlands in 1907, before they immigrated to the United States. All of these children died within 18 months after the photo was taken. 
  • (Center Photo) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their two boys: John and Joseph. Taken in Salt Lake City about 1912.
  • (Photo Right) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their three youngest living children: Joseph, Alice and Edward, taken in Salt Lake City about 1930. John was probably serving his mission in the Netherlands. 

From the Life of Joseph A Westra ...
Joe's father was called on a mission to Holland and his mother took a job at the Forest Annex to help support her family. She kept the school clean and Joe had to help bring in the coal for the stoves. His mother was real strict and they were never allowed to go in the front rooms unless they had company. She kept a spotless home. They always had a nice garden and planted lots of vegetables. They had chickens and a cow. At a picnic at Lagoon Joe’s mother was badly burned when coffee was spilt in her lap. She was in bed for weeks, and Joe had to come home from school each day and scrub the kitchen floor. They had a nice bungalow type home at 2256 South 8th East. It had a long front porch and the family enjoyed sitting out there and visiting friends and relatives. The Westras had lots of friends from Holland, and they would always talk Dutch.

In 1950 she had a bad stroke, which left her unable to speak, and for 5 years she was this way. It was heartbreaking seeing her try to let you know what she wanted. She couldn't write either and was partially paralyzed. The family put her in a rest home, but she was not happy there. Joe would bring her up on Sundays in her wheelchair and have dinner, then take her to church and then back to the rest home.

Geeske DeHaan, born February 23, 1878 and died August 16, 1955 at the age of 77.  Ate Obe Westra, born December 5, 1868 and died December 11, 1946 at the age of 78.  There were 10 children born ...
  • Wilhelmina was born in 1904 and died in 1908
  • Obe was born in 1905 and died in 1907
  • Egbert was born in 1906 and died in 1907
  • John was born Dec. 31, 1908 and died in 1998.
  • George was born in 1909 and died in 1910 
  • Joseph was born in 1911 and died in 1965
  • Allen was born in 1913 and died in 1914
  • Alice was born Jan. 28, 1914
  • Alma was born in 1915 and died in 1916
  • Edward Paul was born July 23, 1923.

Geeske’s story epitomizes the trials that many of the early converts to the LDS Church had to endure. She showed much faith and dedication. When we see the gravestones, two of them, side by side, with three names on each, we can only begin to see the trials that Ate and Geeske endured. These headstones are in the Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park, 3401 South Highland Drive in Salt Lake City, Gilchrest section, next to the headstones of Ate and Geeske. 



The information in this article was taken from a variety of sources. The prime source was pages 1-5 of: ‘Cherished Memories of John and Melva Westra’ written by John Westra. It is a typewritten book of 265 pages that is titled on Page 1: ‘Biography of John Westra and wife Melva Mae Sander Westra’. It is on 8 ½ by 11 pages, two columns per page. Following page 265, there are another 39 pages of genealogical data: Family Group Sheets and Pedigree Charts, going back to the 1300’s. One copy of this book is in the possession of Joseph LaMar Westra. The book is also on the main floor of the Family History Library in Salt Lake City. Go to www.familysearch.org and click on Library Catalog. Set the Search box to Subjects or Last Names and enter the surname of Westra in the next box, and click Search.. Click on the entry titled: ‘Biography of John Westra and wife Melva Mae Sander Westra’ to see the book description and call number: 921.73 W529wj. 

Other sources: PAF data base and photos in possession of Joseph LaMar Westra, IGI searches and new Family Search, Netherlands Civil Records (birth and marriage certificates), www.ancestry.com search on Ate or Geeske Westra, Genlias (Google, search on Genlias), etc .

The PDF can be found in Dropbox.
Check out the HISTORIES AND BIOGRAPHIES page for Ate's History and more links.

Old South High School

 
As Callahan got married and moved out, he left quite a few things behind. Like his high school yearbooks. He said he didn't care about them much (Kate had her copies, and as they were at the same schools the same years, they are duplicates) ... but yearbooks are treasures! I remember before my 20th High School Reunion I pulled my old yearbooks out and reminisced. Finding the yearbook page that featured Grandma Lucille her senior year in 1929 was so much fun, it's an absolute treasure! Doing a little research, I found that there are several sites that showcase school yearbooks online. Classmates.com is one such site. It does require a membership (a free membership allows access to pretty much everything, they do attempt to upgrade you for a monthly fee, but I couldn't see any reason to pay) and doesn't have every yearbook (my high school yearbook isn't there, good thing I still have mine), but I did find the yearbooks for South High School, 1953, 1954 and 1955, when Dad/Lamar was attending. Here's a peek ...

School yearbooks provide a look into what life was like ... the hairstyles and clothing, the types of clubs, the look of uniforms (the football and basketball uniforms change a lot over the years) and the way things are talked about. It's all interesting and fun to look back on!


Junior Year - 1954

Sophomore Year - 1953

Here's a little YouTube video about old South High ...


Maybe I'll hang onto Callahan's yearbooks ... and then "gift" them to him for Christmas many years in the future (that's a Lamar thing to do! *Ü*) He might be happy to see them then (or maybe they will be scanned and online somewhere and the physical copy will be obsolete).

See more about Dad/Lamar's school days.

Do you still have your high school yearbooks?

Saturday, January 24, 1970

School Days in Days Past


(Dad) Lamar's School Memories


Madison Elementary School 
I attended Madison Elementary on State Street about 2400 South.
Kindergarten through 6th grade, 1942-1948. 
It was an old three-story school.


I remember walking the five or six blocks to and from school each day, cutting across rail road tracks and open fields and alleys, and across Truman Avenue and Burton Avenue. That was before I-80 was built, just north of the school. After I-80 was built, my old school was torn down. I only remember one of my teacher’s names: the dreaded Mrs. Gedge. She wasn’t nearly as bad as the rumors I had heard from my classmates.

(Read some of Jen's memories of the Westra elementary school ... Woodstock)





The school was right on State Street, but the school grounds extended back a long ways, with lots of grass and a playground, and lots of dirt, for marbles. Another boy’s activity in the wintertime would be massive snowball fights, usually between the 5th grade and 6th grade boys, with each team having snow forts about 30-40 yards apart. There was an initiation into the 6th grade that all the lower grades would dread. It involved harassment by the outgoing 6th graders, and eating grasshoppers. (See more memories from the Madison Elementary years ... featuring friends and dance cards).  We would have school dances, with dance cards we would fill out ahead of time. I would try to get my first girlfriend, Lola McLaren to sign the last dance so I could walk her home. I still have some of those dance cards, with all the dance slots filled out by different girls. I remember getting threats by one of the other boys to stay away from Lola, but I ignored the threats.



I attended Roosevelt Junior High, which is now Rowland Hall, a private school. It was located west and down the hill from East High School. We were bussed to Roosevelt. I remember some of the teachers at Roosevelt: Mr. Kartchner for PE, Justin Tolman for math, Buttermilk Bertha Rappoport for type. I wrestled for Mr. Kartchner. Mr. Tolman would tell us how he taught the young man who invented television, Philo Farnsworth. He said he had long discussions up in schools in Idaho with Philo, who would explain his theories, and fill the blackboard with complex equations. Buttermilk Bertha Rappoport gave me the only D I ever got on a report card. Then the next semester she gave me an A. My mom told me she had Bertha Rappoport for type when she was in Junior High. Buttermilk Bertha got her knick name for sitting outside her classroom on a garbage can and drinking buttermilk.  

My memories of South High school include lots of new friends, including Jim Peterson, Dick Van Wagenen, Steve Carr and Don Phippen, and some great teachers: Charlotte (Rocky) Schroeder for math, Armont Willardsen for A Cappella Choir (practices at noon, and performing in musicals: The Vagabond King and Oklahoma, and singing almost every Sunday in LDS Wards around the valley), and William Gerrish for chemistry, who talked me into majoring in chemistry at the U of U. I attended early morning seminary, and our carpool, with Don Phippen at the wheel, was memorable.

Check out a peek at Dad/Lamar's South High Yearbook pages!




After my graduation from high school in 1955, I attended the University of Utah for two years, majoring in Chemistry. I spent much of my free time at the LDS Institute of Religion. A big group of South High graduates met there. We played a lot of ping pong, and took institute classes, and ate our lunch, and joined Delta Chapter, one of the four men’s chapters of Lambda Delta Sigma, the LDS fraternity/sorority at the U of U.

I attended the University of Utah for two years, and then served a mission in the Netherlands: 1957-1960. I returned to the U, where I continued my major: chemistry. I got into summer school when I got back home, to avoid being drafted. I took 20 hours during summer quarter, 4 five hour classes. I graduated in 1962, and spent an additional year of post graduate study, changing my emphasis from Chemistry to Math and Computers. At the U, I was again actively involved in Lambda Delta Sigma. It was there I met Margie Norman. We were married in June of 1962...

Tuesday, January 20, 1970

Grandview Neighborhood/Ward and Friends


Here’s a note about the neighborhood around Grandview Circle ( to augment Dad's History).
These additional memories were written up by Dad/Lamar in July 2020.

We moved into the Grandview Circle house in 1949, when I was 12. We had the house built. I remember my dad and I going up there quite often to pick up nails and straighten them, and to clean up after the builders. 

There are photos in our collection that show the house, with not much landscaping (see above). The neighborhood around Grandview Circle was an established neighborhood that had been there for many years before Grandview Circle was built. It was south and east of Sugarhouse. The area between Parkway Avenue, about 2450 South, to 33rd South, and between 13th East and 20th East, was a very large subdivision that probably had a name, perhaps Highland Park, and a timeframe. All the North-South streets, starting at 13th East and going east, were alphabetically named, Alden, Beverly, Chadwick, Dearborn, 15th East, Filmore, Glenmare, Hartford, Imperial, 17th East, Kenwood, Melbourne, Preston. Grandview Circle was just east of Imperial. 

Growing up in that neighborhood, I had friends on most of those streets. I had more friends south of 27th South, than North of 27th South. South of 27th South was our stake, Wilford Stake, and our ward, Grandview Ward. North of 27th South was another stake, Highland Stake. 

The schools were also a bit divided. In our neighborhood, we were bussed to Roosevelt Junior High, which was located pretty close to, and below, East High School. Some of the kids North of 27th South went to Irving Junior, which was located on the North side of 21st South, above 13th East. Our bus to Roosevelt went right past Irving, on our commute to our school. Most of the kids in our neighborhood went to South High School. We weren’t bussed to South High, but used a carpool. 

A lot of the kids in our neighborhood, who lived a bit south of where we lived, went to Olympus High, in the Granite School District. The district boundary was just a block south of our neighborhood. 

Some of my friends in our ward went to Olympus, Frank Willardsen, the Egans, etc. 


Grandview Ward building ... Then and Now

Our ward, the Grandview Ward, was an older funny looking white building, with a big rounded look. You can look it up in Google, Grandview Ward, Salt Lake City, and see a picture of the old ward. There it said the ward was built in 1937, and remodeled in 1975. The article is titled Historic LDS Architecture.  (Pictures located and included). 

You can see a map of the old neighborhood, by going to lds.org, and clicking up on My Account and Ward in the upper right corner of the screen, and then clicking on Meetinghouse Locator, and entering the address, 2740 Grandview Circle, Salt Lake. 

The neighborhood has changed a lot since I lived there. We used to be able to walk, or ride our bicycles up east on 27th South, and there was a mom and pop grocery store on the southeast corner of Melbourne and 27th South, where we often purchased goodies. If we went further east on 27th South, past 20th East, there was a shopping center and a theater a bit East of the Northeast corner of 27th South and 20th East. We would often go to that theater. I remember it had a stage, and they also had contests there. I remember winning a baseball bat for spelling, Hippopotamus. 

The houses between Grandview Circle and Melbourne on the south side of 27th South had large lots that went way back. I remember one of the ward families who lived in one of those houses, the Tischners. I think when I was a deacon and a teacher, I was assigned as a ward teacher with an older companion to visit there. 

A new street has been built east of Grandview Circle, Sonnet Drive, and a school has been built just east of Sonnet Drive, Highland Park Elementary. When I was living there, most of that area was just a big field. I think my younger siblings attended the elementary school that was a couple of blocks west of Grandview Circle on the south side of 27th South. I think that school was also named Highland Park Elementary. That school is now a private school, Carden Memorial School. 

Four families in our ward lived on Melbourne, south of White Avenue, the Egans, and two Whites, Arnold and Verdi, and the Wimmers. They were all related, and working together in a catering business, Distinctive Catering. When I went on my mission, the Bishop of the Grandview Ward was Merritt Egan. His son, Robin Egan, was younger than I. Robin’s mother was a White, and his grandfather was MM White, where the MM stood for Mahonri Moriancumer, the old name for the Book of Mormon prophet, the brother of Jared. No wonder the Book of Mormon referred to him only as the brother of Jared, and not by his full name. 

I remember MM White bearing testimony a few times in our old Grandview Ward. 

One of the streets, going east from Melbourne is Mary Dott Way. Mary Dott was the wife of MM White. One of the sons of MM White was Kenneth, and he was a prominent builder, and likely built the homes along Melbourne and perhaps White Circle, just above our Grandview Ward building. He was connected to White City, and White Water, up in Neff’s Canyon. Ruth White, daughter of Arnold, lived next door to the Egans. Ruth married Norman Egan, who was a cousin to Robin. Norm also lived in the ward, down on Imperial. 

When we first moved into the house on Grandview Circle, we were in the Grandview Ward, which was then part of the Grant Stake. In 1951, the Wilford Stake was organized. 

At first, we attended Stake Conferences in the Grant Stake Tabernacle, on the Northeast corner of 33rd South and State Street. That was a big multi story building with a domed roof and a higher tower. It was also at other times known as the old Granite Stake Tabernacle. That building was razed in 1956. 

Sometime after 1951, the Wilford Stake built a new Stake House, within the current stake boundaries, near Kenwood Avenue. I played a lot of basketball in that new building. 

I have searched Google to try to find a date for when the Wilford Stake Center was built. There is a book listed on Google, written by Merritt Egan, who was at one time in the Wilford Stake Presidency, named something like: History of the Wilford Stake, but that book is apparently not online. 

That book would surely have the dates I am looking for. 

There were 18 houses on Grandview Circle. I have family names for 11 of those houses, mostly where there were kids near the same age as I. On the west side of Grandview Circle, on the corner by 27th South, and heading south, were families Ray Chard, Fred Schwendiman, Martindale, and our house. We were the 6th house on the west side of the circle, with a magnificent view of the North face of Mt. Olympus. Next to us going south, and around the circle were families: Kelm, Newbold, Gerome, Sargent, Borup, and Gustaveson. Further north, on the east side of the circle, was the
Willardsen family. 

Kids near my age were Gary Chard, Mary Gerome, Paul Sargent, DeAnn Borup, Ron Gustaveson, and Dewayne Willardsen. 

Ray Newbold was in our ward bishopric for a time. Linda Kelm was an aspiring opera singer, and many times we could hear her practicing. The Gustavesons had two daughters, Lani Kay and Lorreen, who were good friends to my sisters. 

Other friends in the neighborhood lived on Melbourne. Tim Maxwell lived about 7-8 houses south of 27th South. The two streets heading east from Melbourne, and up to 20th East, were Claybourne, and Atkin. Many of the ward members lived in that area. Mike Dixon lived across from Tim, on the corner of Claybourne. Mike was really smart, and got a scholarship to Yale. I used to go home teaching on Atkin, to the Keiser family. Bob Keiser was near my age, and later worked for the FBI. Claude Kresser, and Mel Newbold, lived on Melbourne, south of the Maxwells. Mel was in our ward bishopric for a time. A friend, John Dunn, lived up on Atkin. My uncle Ed Westra, and my aunt Doreen lived for a time on Melbourne. 

I played lots of basketball on the ward young men’s team, with Gary and Dewayne. Dewayne was our center, but our team didn’t have a lot of height. 

We also played lots of basketball in our neighborhood, with Paul and Dewayne. We had a good hoop on our detached garage, between the garage and what we called our breezeway. We had a good 10 foot hoop, and a wide driveway at that point, but there were two electrical wires running from the corner of the breezeway to our house. They were about eight inches apart, and were about 8 feet up, so you had to be tricky to shoot from certain areas of the driveway. There was another electrical wire up higher running from a pole in back of our garage, to our house. 

I developed a great hook shot, over the two wires, and could bank in shots with pretty good consistency. We could also slam dunk, if we got a good run, and placed our foot against the garage wall, and propelled ourselves up. Of course, landing safely after that attempt was somewhat difficult. 

I remember our garage was a single car garage, but it had a big attic that extended over the breezeway, and we stashed a lot of stuff up there. 

Paul and Gary Sargent also had a nice basketball hoop. We would also walk between the Gerome and Sargent yards where there was a path connecting to the next neighborhood to the South, Atkin Avenue, and Kenwood. We played a lot of basketball on a court there, where Keith Davies lived. Another member of our ward team lived close by there also, John Dwan. He wasn’t a member, but he did play on our ward young men team. Paul and Gary Sargent were also very likely non-members. Gary Sargent later became Student Body President of Highland High. Highland was built on 21st South and 17th East and my younger siblings, Diane and Steve both went to Highland. From our house on Grandview Circle, we could walk to 27th, and then the next street going North was 17th East, and it was just 5 blocks North to Highland High. 

Gary Chard and Dewayne and Mary and DeAnn and I were in the same graduating class at South High. 

I had a good friend who lived North of 27th South, just east of 17th East, Jerry Steele. 

The Gerome family must have moved out, and the Clark family moved into that house. Bob Clark was a year older than I, and was also in Lambda Delta Sigma at the same time I was. 

We also played a lot of softball for our ward young men team. We would ride our bikes out to 27th, and then down to Imperial, and ride all the way south to the nice ball diamond behind the Libbie Edward School, near the corner of Imperial and 33rd South. I remember Frank Willardsen’s father was principal there. 

I remember playing a lot of tackle football on Sunday afternoons, after church. We played at Stratford Park, just behind the Crystal Heights ward house, North of 27th South, and near 20th East. We would also go play football on the fairway of the Salt Lake Country Club. The houses along Parkway and Hillcrest were on the top of the gulley, looking North and down into where Parley’s Creek ran, and where it ran through the golf course. We could descend the hillside to the creek below. There were railroad tracks, and on the other side of the tracks was the golf course. There was no I-80 back then. 

We would also play golf on the golf course. We would go to my friend’s house, Don Phippen, who lived on Hillcrest. We would hit golf balls off his back lawn, and down into the gully. Then we would descend the hill, and find our balls, and then cross the tracks, and play three holes round and round. We dared take only one club, usually a 5 iron, for all our shots. We didn’t want to take a bag, because if we could hear the Country Club guy coming in his golf court, we would have to take our one club and run back across the tracks. 

The road that went down into the gully from our side, was 20th East. It crossed the tracks and the creek, and went through the golf course, and up the other side, into the Parleys neighborhood. 

Back to the stories of some of my friends. 

Gary Chard went on a mission to France, and later married and was later killed, at age 36, in a plane accident in Paris. His parents later moved into our current neighborhood, on Rodeo, south of 64th South. DeWayne moved to Colorado. Ron Gustaveson was a horse person. He and his wife later served as Family Search missionaries at the Family History Library, and I worked with them there. The Gustaveson parents also moved into our current neighborhood, up on Jeremy. Robin Egan also moved into our current neighborhood, and became the first bishop of our new ward, the Cottonwood 13th Ward. 

Other friends from the ward were Gaylon Symes, who lived up on 20th East, and Gaylen Schofield. 


... in progress, additional updates may still be coming.




Monday, January 19, 1970

Father's Friends, Dance Cards ~ More Memories from the Early Years


There's been a Family Photos and History push going on for a while now. Getting negatives and slides converted to digital files. Organizing and labeling photos. A book. A blog. Updating histories.  Dad/Lamar has a written history already, but he's been fleshing it out and adding a bit more. Here's a new addition, written by Lamar in March 2020.


Our elementary school (Madison Elementary) had school dances, and they would have dance cards with 10 places on them. Before the dance, the boys would visit the girls and fill out their dance card. I would try to get my girlfriend, Lola, signed up for the first dance. I still have some of those dance cards, with all the dance slots filled out with names of 10 different girls. I remember getting threats by one of the other boys to stay away from Lola, but I ignored the threats. I remember going to some pretty wild birthday parties, playing spin the bottle and other inappropriate kissing games, turn off the lights, wander around in the dark, find a girl, kiss her.   It’s good we moved away when I was 12.  I might have been improperly influenced by some of the friends I had. 



A list of some of my friends during the time I lived at 246 East 21st South ~ Elementary Years (through age 12) Also see the post about Lamar's School Day memories. The list below includes friends from school (Madison Elementary) or from the neighborhood, or from the local ward.

  • Austin, Billie Mae (Dance Cards)
  • Brown, Diane (Dance Cards)
  • Callahan, Eddie (Lived near Lola McLaren)
  • Dalton, Fred (Lived on 3rd East, East Side, We met later at a ward function)
  • Fereday, Gary (Scouting, he later lived in our Stake, 8th Ward, 10 children, plumber, died 2012 )
  • Hammer, Rose Ann (Dance Cards)
  • Harris, Arlene (Dance Cards)
  • Hedbergh, Carolyn (Dance Cards)
  • Johnson, Lorraine (Dance Cards)
  • Kase, Myrna (Dance Cards)
  • McLaran, Lola (Dance Cards, My First Girl Friend, Lived on Burton Avenue, just East of State)
  • Middleton, Norman (Lived on 3rd East, East Side, My main bicycle buddy, Catholic)
  • Olsen, Janice (Dance Cards)
  • Parry, Boyd (Lived just two houses west of our house)
  • Porchadis, Marlene (Dance Cards)
  • Rich, Dee Ann (Dance Cards)
  • Royce, Gary (Lived on 3rd East, West Side, bicycle buddy, marble player)
  • Serial, Ardith (Dance Cards)
  • Simpson, Dorothy (Dance Cards)
  • Stam, Margie (Dance Cards)
  • Tassey, Mariam (Dance Cards)
  • Wells, Ruth (Dance Cards)

Can you guess who is who? Can you find Lamar?


Some of my best friends during my elementary school days were Boyd Parry, Fred Dalton, Gary Royce and Norman Middleton.  Gary and Norman were my bicycle buddies.  I had saddlebags on my bike, and we would ride out south to the end of 3rd East, and to the end of 5thEast.  We would gather soda pop and beer bottles and put them into our saddlebags.  Then we would stop at grocery stores to redeem our bottles, getting 2 or 3 cents per bottle.  We also collected popsicle bags from streets and garbage cans around the grocery stores.  We would package them up and send them in for gifts.  I always got along with all my friends, but Gary and Norman always had fights.  They lived across from each other on 3rd East.  All my friends were LDS except Norman.  He was catholic, and attended the St. Ann’s school on 21stSouth.  He hated it.  He had lots of conflicts with the Nuns. 


I might make MARBLES its own blog post ... so if you see it again, that's why ;) 

One of the favorite activities for the boys at our school was marbles.  I would take about 15 marbles to school every day, and every day come home with 50-70.  I would win them playing marbles.  We would get a stick and draw rings in the dirt, and each player would ante up a set number of marbles and put them into the center of the ring.  Then we would shoot them out, from the perimeter of the ring.  I was a pretty good shot, having learned the art of marbles from my father, who had a number of medals.  Gary Royce was my main marbles competition.

If your taw (your shooting marble) hit a marble that was in the ring, and knocked it out, and your taw stayed in the ring, you would continue shooting from that position until you missed knocking out a marble.  You might be able to clear all the marbles in the ring on this turn.  The taw was usually a marble a little larger and heavier than the marbles you were shooting at.  They were often called aggies, a certain type of taw.  We would also play pots.  We would dig five shallow holes in the dirt, four at the four corners of a square, about six feet on each side.  The last hole was in the middle of the square.  The players would each ante up a set number of marbles to put into the center hole.  Then we would take turns and start at one corner, and shoot to get our marbles in each successive hole, and finally into the center hole.  The first to get their taw into the center hole won all the marbles that were in it.  We would lag our marbles to a line about 8-10 feet away, and the one lagging closest to the line would be first to start the game.

In rings, if your taw didn’t knock any marbles out of the ring, and stayed in the ring, it would stay there for the next shot.  However, if one of the next players to shoot knocked your taw out of the ring, he would keep your taw, and you would be out of the game.  The same rule went for pots.  If you made a shot towards a hole, and missed the hole, your taw would stay there.  If any other player hit your taw with their taw, you would lose your taw and be out of that game.  So if you eliminated all of the other players, you would automatically get all the marbles.    

Another boy’s activity in the wintertime would be massive snowball fights, usually between the 5th grade and 6th grade boys, with each team having snow forts about 30-40 yards apart. 


   



                               

Friday, January 16, 1970

Ate Obes Westra - A Biography


Ate Obes Westra was born 5 Dec 1868 in Achlum, Franekeradeel, Friesland, Netherlands to Obe Jans Westra and Aaltje Klazes Posthumus. Ate was the 8th of their 9 children. Two of the previous sons had been named Ate Obes, born in 1863 and 1864, but both had died early, the first at five months, and the second at 16 days. It was the custom of those days, if a child died early, to name a subsequent child of the same gender the same name. Of the 9 children, only four (all boys) lived past the age of seven months. They were Jan, Doekele, Ate and Gerlof.

Ate Obes Westra was just five years old when his mother died, in 1874.  His father married again, in 1875, to Bintje Arjens Dykstra.  They had four children, 1876-1879.  After the last child was born, Ate’s father died, in 1879, leaving Ate an orphan at the age of 10.   Ate moved frequently from one relative to another.  When he was 12 years old, he moved to Harlingento live with his uncle Gerlof Alberda, who was a half brother of his mother.  Ate lived there until he was 16, when he moved to Kollum for two years.  Then, in 1886, he stayed with his newly married brother Jan in Augustinusga for two years.  He then moved to Dokkum for another two years, after which he returned to Augustinusga. 

During the next few years, Ate lived and worked with his older brothers Jan and Doekele in their bakery, first in Leeuwarden, the capital of Friesland, and then in the city of Groningen.  Because of the very meager earnings of the bakery, his brothers could not pay him a salary.  He worked there several years, from 1890 to 1902 for his room and board. 

After Ate reached the age of 33, and still unmarried, he began searching and praying about religion. He attended the Dutch Reformed Church and also visited other churches during these restless years.  

In a letter Ate wrote to his sister-in-law Henderika in Holland in 1941, Ate wrote of his conversion. He said, “Rika, can you remember that Sunday, now about 40 years ago, we were received as new confessed members of the Reformed Church under Minister Langhort, and you asked me when we returned home how I felt. I answered that I was disappointed, that I had expected to receive a sure testimony, so that I could know for sure that I was accepted in the Church of Christ. But I did not receive this testimony and Jan tried to set me at ease by saying I was too hasty and premature, that possibly the following Sunday when we sit for the sacrament I would be reassured. With all my heart I wanted that reassurance, but when we came home you asked me a second time how I felt. Then was my answer the same; disappointed – I miss something.” 

“God knows how I appealed to Him that I might receive this assurance. Many times during the night I have been on my knees in earnest prayer. Then sometime later, Doekele (Ate’s older brother) came to me and invited me to meet some young missionaries from America who were coming to their house every Tuesday evening to talk to them about the restored gospel. He himself was not interested, so he said, but Hendrikje, his wife, was interested in talking with them. The first word they spoke made a great impression upon me and I soon gained a burning testimony of its truthfulness.” 

Ate’s brothers did not share the gospel with him, although he felt they knew it was true. When the Elders explained the Word of Wisdom to him, he immediately threw his tobacco away and never touched it again. He was baptized 12 April 1902 by Bernard Denkers. None of his family ever joined the church. 

Ate Obes Westra met Geeske Egberts de Haan about May of 1902 at the LDS church branch in Groningen. Ate was almost 10 years older than Geeske. Because of the depression, Geeske and her sisters had gone to work in the big city of Groningen to work as housemaids. Geeske worked in the home of Brother Van der Werf, who was a member of the church. She had joined the church on 19 October 1901 when she was 23 years of age.  

Ate and Geeske met as newly baptized members of the Groningen branch, and after a six month romance, they were married on 16 October 1902 in Groningen. They were blessed with three lovely children. Wilhelmina was born 18 June 1903; Obe was born 7 February 1905, and Egbert was born 31 July 1906. 

Ate and Geeske had a prosperous laundry established during this time and in 4 ½ years saved sufficient funds for them to immigrate to America. 

They immigrated to the United States in April 1907. 

We had tried to find information on the immigration via Ellis Island, but could not locate them there. In the journal of Joseph LaMar Westra, dated 8 May 2006, LaMar finally located the following on one of his Monday shifts at the Family History Library: ‘I did a check of Ancestry for my grandfather: Ate Westra. I discovered some new Ancestry reports: one showing their house number and neighbors in 1934, and another showing the ship where they came to the US from Holland in 1907. The ship was the SS Canada, arriving in Portland, Maine. No wonder I had not been able to find them in Ellis Island’. 

Geeske became pregnant shortly before their departure, and together with sea and morning sickness, did not enjoy a moment of her ocean voyage. Worse yet, they were robbed of all their money on the ship, but were given money by an unknown benefactor so that they could continue on to Salt Lake City. Fortunately, they had purchased their train tickets in Holland. 

Upon their arrival in Utah, they were invited to make their first home with their Dutch friends, brother and sister Hulshof, and lived at 445 North 12th West in Salt Lake City, until they were able to find and finance a home of their own. 

They had misfortune and trials soon after they arrived among the saints. Just four months after their arrival, their two boys died of “summer complaint” which was caused from hot weather and resulted in high fevers and extreme diarrhea. Egbert died on 18 Aug 1907, and Obe passed away just five days later. 

Another son, John, was born 31 Dec 1907. He lived to adulthood. 

Ate was ordained an Elder on 6 Nov 1907, and on Wednesday, 12 Feb 1908, Geeske and Ate went to the Salt Lake Temple and received their endowments, were sealed in marriage together for eternity, and then had their children sealed to them: their two living children: Wilhelmina and John, and their two deceased sons: Obe and Egbert. 

Just a few months later, 21 Jun 1908, Wilhelmina passed away after being sick with scarlet fever. She was just four years old. 

In the following years, a small two-room home was purchased at the end of 8th East, just south of Parkway Avenue, in Forest Dale Ward. There were several other Dutch families that lived in the neighborhood with names: Harenberg, DeBry, Neerings, Grundman, Stuurman, Meibos, Springer, Teerlink, Aardema and several others. (See more about the locations they lived here). 

Another son, George was born 13 Oct 1909. George lived just five months and died 17 March 1910. Another son, Joseph was born 23 Oct 1911. He lived to adulthood (this is Lamar's father, see his history here). Two more sons were born: Allen born 9 March 1913, lived 15 months and died 25 June 1914; and Alma born 30 April 1915, lived 9months and died 15 January 1916. 

The last two children lived to adulthood: a daughter Alice, born 28 January 1917, and Edward, a son, born 23 July 1923. When their last child was born, Geeske was 45, and Ate was 54.  Ate was called on a mission to the Netherlands while in his 50s, from 1919-1922. When he returned home, he built a little brick house where he lived until he passed away on Dec 11, 1946, just shy of turning 78.



  • (Left Photo) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their three children: Wilhelmina, Obe and Egbert, taken in Netherlands in 1907, before they immigrated to the United States. All of these children died within 18 months after the photo was taken.
  • (Center Photo) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their two boys: John and Joseph. Taken in Salt Lake City about 1912.
  • (Photo Right) This is a picture of Ate and Geeske and their three youngest living children: Joseph, Alice and Edward, taken in Salt Lake City about 1930. John was probably serving his mission in the Netherlands.
Joe's father was called on a mission to Holland and his mother took a job at the Forest Annex to help support her family. Later his father was Custodian at L.D.S. Business College. He and his brother John worked as Deseret Newspaper boys while growing up, and helped support the family. 


What's in a Name?
The given name Ate was likely chosen from one of his ancestors. One great grandfather was named Ate Jacobs Hofstra, born in 1757 in Wijnaldum Friesland, Netherlands. The middle name followed the patronymic custom of the Netherlands, giving each child, male or female, the middle name of the father, with a following z or s, for zoon (son of), similar to the patronymic practices of Scandinavia, where a sen or son or sson was added, as in Jensen, Larson, or Mattsson. 


The table below shows the ancestry of the Westra line. You can see the patronymic naming system. Birthplaces for all individuals are all in the county of Friesland, in Netherlands.

Ancestor
Birth
Birthplace
Name of Wife
 Ate Obes Westra
1868
Achlum
Geeske Egberts de Haan
 Obe Jans Westra
1831
Achlum
Aaltje Klazes Posthumus
 Jan Douwes Westra
1793
Achlum
Dieuwke Ates Hofstra
 Douwe Klazes Westra
1751
Kimswerd
Grietje Sikkes Bangma
 Klaas Tjallings Westra
1714
Schettens
Lijsbeth Douwes
 Tjalling Jarigs Westra
1686
Kornwerd
Lieuke Clases
 Jarig Sjoukes
1654
Kornwerd
Reinou Tjallings
 Sjouke Sjoerds
1622
Kornwerd
Mrs. Sjouke Sjoerds
 Sjoerd Doekes
1594
Kornwerd
Mirk Sjoukes
 Doeke Sjoerds
1553
Kornwerd
Hets Jarigs
 Sjoerd Doekes
1512
Kornwerd
Mrs. Sjoerd Doekes

The Westra surname must have been adopted by Tjalling Jarigs, sometime around the 1740s, since three of his offspring, by two different wives, were later known by Westra.  I think the name means ‘from the west’ which probably means from the west side of whatever village they were in – probably Schettens.  The suffix ‘stra’ must have meant ‘from the’ in the Frisian language, like ‘van der’ means ‘from the’ in the Dutch language.  Compare Noordstra (North), Zuidstra (South), Oostra (East), Dijkstra (dike), Hofstra (garden), etc. 

The suffix ‘ma’ or ‘sma’ or ‘ema’ must have a similar convention, as in surnames like Bangma, Wijma, Hamersma, Boerema, Boersma, Bonnema, Berema, Gerkema, Tassema, Schaafsma, Steensma, etc.  These are all surnames in our Dutch ancestry.  The Westra surname originated in quite a number of places in a similar manner, so all Westras are not necessarily related. 

Surnames were adopted first by the more educated people, and later surnames were forced on all the Dutch people by Napolean sometime around 1811, when the civil records were started.  Prior to 1811, all records of births, marriages and deaths were in church (parish) registers.